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THE 30 DAY HEARTBREAK CURE BY CATHERINE HICKLAND! SHE RUNS CATCOSMETICS AND I WANT TO BE HER..OK!!

Sun, 04/26/2009 - 9:43pm
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Meg here! This isn't just a makeup site. It's a women site and now I am single. We just gave you an amazing tip on how using Monistat on your face is a Godsend.  So be nice to me, OK? We delivered the Monistat secret so indulge me here.

I just want to first say that Megken is one of the best people I've ever met and there are no hard feelings. Honestly, just hurt ones.

As with all relationships, you have to judge what you can do and what you're not comfortable with. Being true to yourself is very important and sometimes we get swept away and lose who we are. It doesn't matter, no one is immune or exempt to heartbreak. Look at Catherine Hickland, she's a sucessful actress, brilliant business woman, kind hearted and drop-dead gorgeous. Guess what? She's had her heartbroken too.

Every one of us has had our heart handed to us on a platter. Sadness does not discriminate. This topic is for you whether you've lost your lover or parakeet you've got a whole in heart. I have never been so happy to have The 30 Heartbreak Cure  on my nightstand.

Catcosmetics treats the outer beauty so perfectly well, this book treats the inner beauty that gets bruised. Its tag line is simple Getting Over Him and Back Out There One Month From Today.

"Look at it this way" Cat says "There's nothing you can't handle for thirty days, except feel like you're feeling today." Each day brings you a new reflection and a simple activity that will help you look better, feel better, and ultimately discover that you're not just as good as new thanks to this experience, you are better.

Knowing that I have this as a crutch...Umm..I mean Tool makes me feel better inside already.

I am lucky enough to be in Cat's presence on May 6th at a fantastic location in Charlotte, NC. We're sharing and talking beauty and life with all sorts of experts over wine and appetizers and FABULOUS GIFT BAGS full of product! Join us for a great time! I can't wait! Better Class of Beauty Is going to heal this heart and make you beautiful from all sides!

So don't cry for me Argentina, the truth is, I've never left you. We have ups and downs and then we get up and do our makeup. When life hands you lemons-cut the damn lemon in half and use its citrus to remove spray-tan problems. Either that or stick the lemon half in your bra and go up a cup side! Better yet, call a neighbor, tell them you have lemons, ask them to bring vodka, water and some sugar and have a fabulous afternoon!

Life happens to everyone! Get over yourself and get fabulous! Do it in 30 days!

I love you all and lets drink some of that spiked lemonade together!

Anyone out there with an inspiring "get over him story?" We have a personalized 30 Day Heartbrake Cure and phone chat with Cat Hickland coming your way!!

Great gift for the sad girlfriend that's driving you crazy!!

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Sun, 04/26/2009 - 10:51pm
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Gosh Beav, you make me sound so good I went to Amazon and bought my own book :)My book really does work, and I have had some serious cases to prove it on over the last 18 years.  Mine and others.  I had one girl that was left at the alter, she was in bad shape. Now, she's doing great.  Happily married to to Mr. Totally Right.  Even if you're thinking about ending a relationship (of any kind) read this book.  If you're dating, it's an awesome life guide.This book is the answer to the paralyzing grief of heartbreak.  Girlfriends, I am here for you! xoxox Slap on a little lip gloss, you'll be fine :) 

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 12:52am
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I am so sorry Meg, for both you and Megken.  I just want to remind you that you are loved, valued, and respected by every single woman on this site.  We are here for you, for the good and the bad.If you need a change of scenery, my guest room has your name on it. Your attitude and willingness to share your life with us is truly inspiring.  I know you will be o.k., but man, heartbreak is just plain suckish.  I am glad you have such a great book and such great friends to help you through all this.Love You, Dawn  

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 1:51am
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Hello Meg. I am sorry for you and MegKen. Thank U for the Leave in Conditioner, by the way, it is beautiful and perfect.Meg, in my beliefs and spiritual thoughts, Everything, even bad or hurtful things, happen for a reason. Sometimes the reason maybe to learn a lesson, sometimes the reason maybe to work off some bad habits or get rid of some old Karma. Most of the time, the hurtful sitation is a prime up for mr right and you're now a step closer for mr right, mr forever. I was almost 35 when I married my husband, we will be married 11 years July, I can honestly say I love him more now.Whatever the reason you go into a situation and it goes south, if you can come out of a situation and you feel your life has been touched or you've learned something, it can be worth the pain, a trade off.When my heart is broken or someone I love has a broken heart, i 1st always encourage a make over and a change. I always encourage prayer, meditation and visualization is always a big help. Take care of yourself. Scented dead sea Bath salts help too. Creative visualization is huge. I give myself time to go to the trees or ocean, somewhere I can find peace. Take a picture of yourself at different times of your life, such as a childhood, teen, early twenties, and now. (I don't think you're as old as I am or I'd say twenties, 30's and now :) ) each week, give or take depending on how you're feeling, ask the Girl in the picture "what would make you feel better?" and let her answer from with in you, then do it, be it get a pint of ben and jerrys, hitting the chanel counter or dancing in a club, let the inner you answer.Lastly, but definatly not least, journal, write and write and write somemore. Writing, journaling, it's priceless, the amount of good you get out of it is priceless. I process with writing, I pray with my writing, I talk to my inner self, God, and the universe. Sometimes I ask "what do I need to learn from this and I don't think I just do random writing and let the inner me and higher self answer.  Always do something really nice for yourself. When your heart is broken, go the extra mile for yourself. Give to yourself the kindness and love you'd give to someone else in your situation. Last, but not least, each day, everyday, at bed time is when i like to do this visualization, be grateful, pray and meditate, put it out there what you want, then, say how you feel, write it out, then end it with "I am grateful for this I am grateful for that, thank you for this opportunity to learn and grow, even tho' I don't want to be in pain, I am grateful I had the chance to blah blah blah, thank you for : blah blah blah, Thank You for this opportunity to learn, and grow, and love."

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 2:25am
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I'm so sorry things didn't work out, Meg. There's not a much more eloquent way to put it: heartbreak sucks. It sucks a lot. I had someone in high school that I devoted my entire heart to (I know people say you can't be "in love" at that young, but you can give your heart to someone) and he proceeded to take advantage of it and then stomp all over it, and god, do I wish I had this book. I was a very unhappy camper for almost a year before I perked up- just before I left for college, actually. Just remember that you are one of the most amazing, beautiful women I've ever met, and that you are strong. You will heal, and we all have your back to help you do it. I feel like that REM song, but everybody hurts sometimes and we are all blessed to have such an amazing woman like you, Meg, to help us through; and I'm glad that we can do the same for you. <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3-Vexy

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 4:16am
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Ah so sorry for you,you'l prob feel horrible for a least a couple of weeks,go for some all out pampering guilt free and hit the town to try and keep your mind off it.I find everything happens for a reason,cast your mind back to the guys you were crazy about at 16,18,21 and you will most likely find you'l think,god dodged a bullet there(yet you felt like crap at the time)I know I laugh with relief that I never ended up shakeled to some of the idiots I thought were mr perfect cos they were so wrong for me.Cos somewhere out there is the one thats just right for you,anyway youll have them lining up for you being fabulous looking and smart,whatever doesnt kill you makes you stronger,youll prob be beating them off with a stick,somewhere out there theres a billionare with your name stamped on him.

PotionPrincess♥

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 5:43am
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Meg, I know you cannot cuddle up next to us at night, but you are nonetheless surrounded by warmth and good feelings from scores of women who love you.  You put so much positive energy out into the world and do so much for others, good things are bound to come back to you, and sooner than you think.  And do remember, nothing you do for good goes unnoticed or unappreciated in this world.  If nothing else, you sent an unkempt man back into the world with a fabulous haircut -- that kind of good deed will certainly give you a big plus sign in the Book of Life!

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 5:48am
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Potionprincess makes an excellent point. God knows there are idiots I shed bitter tears over back in the day that I wouldn't be seen dead with today. Now, the mere thought that I wept and wailed my way through boxes and boxes of Kleenex over men who were utter arseholes fills me with shame and mortification. What was I thinking? (I don't think I was, evidently). I hemmorraged such a lot of time and energy on these losers, when I could have been out being fabulous and having fun. Fortunately (it took a while) I got my act together - single at the moment, but at least I don't have to cringe over my more recent exes, and we've parted on amicable terms. Meg - when you can part ways with someone, keep your dignity, and still see that he's an ok person, you've come a long way. Thank-you for sharing. You know what's great about you telling your truth? It shows that you can be great, gorgeous, and an inspiration to all, and still luck out on relationships.I wish I'd read your post (and the book!) when I was 18 - maybe then I would have realised that the fact that my relationships did not work out, did not mean I was a loser - which is exactly how I saw it. That's why I was so desperate to prove I had some self-worth that I was willing to walk a crooked path to exhaustion, in the hope of eventually making it straight. (Definition of insanity and all that).Now I try to take the path that Vicci13 outlined. Prayer, looking within, asking myself 'what am I supposed to learn from this', karma, and belief that every thing happens for a reason under the auspices of a loving God (or whatever name you may choose). It may not be the solution for everyone, but for me personally, it beats the hell out of turning into a snivelling wreck everytime a relationship hits the dust. I remember reading a quote (I'm not sure where, could it have been here?). It was something to the effect of 'think of a peach - the most perfect peach you have ever seen - ripe, sweet, juicy. Now you offer that peach to someone, and it turns out he/she doesn't like peaches - he/she only likes plums. Does this make the peach any less perfect? It really hit home with me.

Rie

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 7:05am
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Aww, Meg!  I am sorry to hear about your breakup with Megken.   I've known you since 5th grade -- you have always turned lemons into lemonade.  You always land on your feet. You will get through this, I know.It is so easy to get swept away in a new relationship.  How could you not -- Megken seems like such a great guy.  With all relationships, you inevitably arrive at the juncture where you start to ask yourself if this relationship will work in the long-term?   Opposites/differences may attract, but I firmly believe that the "right" similarities between people is the key to a long-lasting relationship.  I am so proud of you for staying true to yourself!  Big hugs to you.  I am here if you need to talk.  xoxo- gem

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 7:08am
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Meg,I am SO looking forward to our time in Charlotte.It fills my heart to read all of the posts from the girls to you here.  This is what separates the boys from the girls.  When we have an "officer down,"the troops rally around us, such as what you're seeing here.  Women ARE awesome beings.  How blessed we are to be women.  I promise you that we are going to have FUN, laugh ourselves silly, and raise our serotonin levels to new heights!I love you, friend!Cat

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 8:43am
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Oh Meg, I am truly sorry to hear that your relationship with Megken has reached the end of the path you two were walking on together.  Most of all I feel for your sad heart; that’s the hardest part because our hearts are the centers of all those feelings we carry around; joy, pain, elation, sorrows.  But the best thing is the fact that we have hearts that feel!  My husband says the more you feel things the bigger your heart is!  So Meg dear; if you are feeling this ending of your relationship deeply it just proves once again that you have an ENORMOUS heart!  You are such a powerhouse of a woman girl…let yourself feel the pain so you can get it out (holding it back makes things worse) just let it rip; talk to caring girlfriends who really will listen to every single thing you have to say about your ending relationship and all the things you loved or didn’t like about it; let friends hold you when you are lonely or saddest and pamper yourself; be nice to yourself! Then, eventually Meg, after you go through all of that; think about how you are going to stage your own comeback!   I  just see you as such a powerhouse so I’m thinking the best is yet to come!  I had a lot of short relationships after I got a divorce after 18 years of marriage and in the end I learned from every single short relationship I was in what I liked about them and what I really disliked about them.  The best thing, if there is a best thing, is that when you emerge from your sadness over a breakup you are a stronger woman usually and if you take the best from what you learned in your last relationship you can use that to find an even better relationship because you won’t be looking for more of the same of what you let go of but instead you could find something more wonderful than anything you could have ever dreamed of!  I took a look at all the relationships I had over the years (many that I thought I'd die of pain over when they ended) and now I look back and think "What was I thinking?" most of the time and also thank God I didn't end up with any of them!  My criteria was all whacked out about what I thought was important in my relationship partner!  It wasn't until my last semi-long relationship in my 50's that just about did me in at the ending that after all the pain finally left; I was left with a realization that this guy, once again, really had nothing that was a healthy and loving connection for me.  So I took a major TIME OUT from dating and got my own act together and sat down and really took a look at just exactly WHAT WAS I LOOKING FOR???  And when I did that I took a chance and found someone who was completely opposite and different from the type of guy I constantly gravitated to and sought out and for the first time in so many MANY years of my adult life - I found somebody really GOOD!  Somebody really good for me!  I am in the healthiest and most joyfilled and loving relationship of my life!  Sometimes letting go of relationships that don't work out gives us a time out to reflect on our own needs and lives.  People sometimes cover the pain up by moving right on to another relationship which from the get go will not last or they take time to find something even better than what they ever had before.  Meg, just know that something you haven't even thought of yet is coming to you; as long as you have space in your life for something good to come in - it can happen!  If you spend too much time dwelling on something that's ended - there is no space for something new and even more rewarding to come in.  So take the time you need to grieve the loss of an amazingly fun time with Megken and remember the good with a smile (because there WAS LOTS of good) and just keep going!  Help your heart mend in all the healthy loving ways there is to do that (including this lovely calendar!) and do all the things you do with zest and eventually we will be reading a topic that says something like "Oh MY GOD!  Can I just tell you about the person I met today while I was in a mining diamonds in the South of France on a vacation in a brand new winery that helps kittens without mothers!" or something along those lines!  You have such an exciting, fun, thrilling life that most all of us who read your website couldn't even begin to touch...girl you are so not going to spend your life alone - THAT I am sure of!   
 

Jeanasina!http://jhasleftthebuilding.blogspot.com/

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 8:57am
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Meg, I've mostly just been lurking on your site for the past couple of years. It's interesting how things always seem to align in life; I was just compelled last week to start posting and get more involved. I'm glad I did because now I don't feel quite as awkward responding here.I have to agree with all of these women who've already so eloquently expressed their heartfelt support. They know you better than I do. So, hopefully you'll take my sentiments objectively and realize how very real they are.I've observed you to be a wonderfully giving, lively, warm, funny, loving, caring, bright woman. Heartbreak indeed sucks. But nowhere near as badly as betraying your own self. And even though you'll have to endure the pain, you are very blessed to not have to go it alone.

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 9:22am
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Say it isn't so--a friend and I were just talking about wishing you two well.  All of the women here are brilliant.  I'm hurting for you but can't express myself as well as they can.  For starters, vicci13 suggests writing as a catharsis and thinking what you can learn from the whole situation, how it fits into the plan for your life, and praying.  Doing good for others works!  Gems of wisdom (and wry, humorous words) fall from tantejoan's mouth.  As this sagacious lady says, good will return to you; it's a metaphysical truism in life!  Cugo123, your comments are also wise.  I first read that quote in Leo Buscaglia's book simply named Love and remind myself of it often.  Gigi, who is never "politically correct" nor wants to be, will now make something publically known.  I dated a plethora of men when I was single but grew tired of it.  I was weary of those who wanted to tie me down for life too quickly or had to be "in control," were in love with themselves, didn't appreciate the importance of family and friends, had no intention of growing spiritually, mentally, and emotionally with me, wanted to be intimate when they couldn't recall my last name, etc.  I had an epiphany which changed my life!  I thought I was "in love" with a doctor and he planned a wonderful surprise birthday party for me at a beautiful restaurant.  My best friend Debbie drove me there after making up some excuse.  He made sure he secured the best table for us in the establishment, poured my favorite champagne, and did a lovely toast.  We sat, exchanged a few kisses, and I cherished his birthday gift.  We could talk and we had chemistry--I was in Heaven! He had brought some female colleagues from work with him who were much older and married, but he laughed and said, "I'd better go talk to the other women.  As they say, 'So many women, so little time.'"  Although it was meant in jest, my stomach fell to my feet and I was surprised at myself with my wrath over it.  I sought Debbie and said, "Please drive me home--now.  Enough is enough."  I explained what happened and she was stunned and replied, "You can't leave your own party."  I said "Watch me!" as we gathered our coats and slipped out of the back.  On the way home, she blasted music and I prayed.  I said to God, "Lord, I've had it.  This was fun for the first few years, but if you mean me to be alone, then alone it will be.  I just praise you for my loved ones and all that I have.  You take over from here.  I'm finished playing 'The Dating Game.'"  Two weeks later, my husband asked me out.  We taught together and I didn't want to go, as he had been intimidated by me for some reason and I mistook it for arrogance. I reluctantly agreed.  I had no expectations--I was just looking forward to a free concert!  That date with Ron lasted sixteen hours and, once we began talking, we couldn't stop.  I knew with my heart and soul that we were meant to be together, and he had been right under my nose for six years while I never recognized it.  We call our twenty-year marriage a beautiful, blessed "ever-unfolding oral and physical conversation."  I had literally overlooked him when he was right in front of me.  When I gave up control of my life, the Lord took over.  He knew what was best for me.  And I love His divine sense of humor.  Two months later, Ron asked if I had been at the particular restaurant where my party had been; I had, but he hadn't.  I thought, "Here we go again."  It was there that he told me he loved me and I knew with every cell in my being that he was sincere.  Guess what?  He even chose the same table Mr. Wrong did!  Well, I'm off to eat the turkey sandwich Ron makes for me daily, along with ironing my clothing, cleaning the house, and standing on his head to care for me in every possible way.  I could not have dreamed a more wonderful man, but God did.  As Robert Browning says, "The best is yet to be."  Meg, sweetheart, you are now moving closer to "the one."  In the meanwhile, relax in our collective love!

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 9:29am
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Oh, bother.  Part of my profile is showing in my comments.  I don't know how or why--sorry!

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 9:31am
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Okay, I will disappear.  I'm not a fan of country music, except for a few songs.  One is "The Dance" and the other is "Unanswered Prayers."  Check out the latter and you'll be able to identify with it.

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 9:37am
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Oh Meg, I am so sorry to hear that you're hurting now.  I don't know of anything I can add to the very wise comments above... except to remind you of how many people love you.  You've touched so many lives!  Every relationship I've had that ended has taught me something about what I want (and what I DON'T want) in my life.  I'm glad you are with Cat and busy. I hope the healing starts right NOW. Carole 

Carole

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 9:40am
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Meg I am so sorry to hear that :( I'm not going to pretend to know much, or really anything, about your relationship so I have no words of wisdom but I just want you to know that we all love you so much and you will make it through this!

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 10:09am
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Meg Darlin'...you have made the "best possible" choice.A hard one I know,but the best one for you and honestly in the long run,not "selling out" is the only way a girl can keep her dignity and sanity when the men in our lives come and go.I agree with the other beautiful ladies that the "pain" is something we all share but I guess my "life experience" has seasoned me a bit and I will add,in the immortal words of my girl Scarlett O'Hara: "After all...tomorrow IS another day!"And I mean that in THE best possible way: another day to try,another day to live,and another day to maybe connect with THE perfect person for you!I agree with Catherine and SO hope I get to meet her,wish Charlotte was a bit closer that putting on a bit of lipgloss is the way to start the ball rolling.I will tell you like I tell my younger (and much loved as well!) sisters: "Never,EVER, settle."You are worth it and it's all out there simply waiting.Much love and here for you anytime.

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 12:51pm
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Meg, I hope you are feeling better soon.  Our thoughts are with you.Indi

Indi

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 1:09pm
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Meg, I am so sorry! A break-up can be so difficult. But as I am sure you already know they often turn out to be blessings in disguise. So I raise my glass to you in hopes that you quickly find your blessings. As for the book. I have thought that Cat is the best for years. She is so vivacious. I would take note of her life advice any day of the week. Now although I am married to the love of my life, this review makes me think that the book could benefit me. I am going through a lot of health issues right now that have led to a lot of grief and depression. Maybe this book would be just the ticket to help my outlook.

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 1:31pm
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Meg, I am so sorry.  But, wow, look at the support system you have going for you here, this is amazing!  All these woman look up to you and love you because you make them feel so amazing, and you bring such joy and laughter into their lives!  We all love you and are here for you because you always are for us as well.   I am here if you need me.  Lots of love and hugs to my Bert!!  xoxo

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 6:40pm
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I am so so so sorry. While everyone's breakup is different, and for different reasons and right now it would be down right insulting to imply that any of mine were "just like your's" I know they are just alike in one way and that is, it will get so much better.

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Mon, 04/27/2009 - 9:14pm
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Meg, instead of saying how sorry I am, I am going to say how lucky you are that you found out that you were not compatible before getting into all sorts of legal complications.  I know you will come out of this, smiling with bright Dior Red lips.  It may be hard, but 30 days seems about right.  You will know what to do.  It might be eating ice cream, screaming at the moon, break a few dishes, but you will pull through.  You may learn that next time it might be better to go a little slower, be a little more cautious, a little more picky.  Only you can know.Here is my heartbreak story.  I was in college and met this great guy.  We ended up living together for 10 years.  One day I came home and found him moving and I asked what was going on.  He said he bought a house and was done with me.  Can you believe that!  I stood there open mouthed.  I let him move, all the while being nice but inside I was hurt, but I was more mad.  Really hot fire mad.  How did I pay him back.  I changed my hair, bought new clothes, stopped hanging around "our" friends, and put my energy into finishing my degree and energizing my career.  Not more than three months later I met my now husband.  We now have been married 23 years.  My old boyfriend has admitted he made a mistake. Oh?  Too bad.  He now wants to be friends.  Friends don't treat each other like that.  Sorry.  And best of all, he is still lonely and has no one.  Good for him.

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Tue, 04/28/2009 - 10:40am
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You are all too kind and amazing! I'm taking Stylemama up on her offer and totally excited for her guestroom and spiked lemonade!The support you have shown me is AMAZING! WOW!I can't thank-you all enough for your encouragment and warm wishes and all of your LOVE!! Unreal, you're just beyond fabulous and I'm feeling better already-XOXOOTHANK-YOU!Meg

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Tue, 04/28/2009 - 2:54pm
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This was a hard website to visit today. I really like being Megken. You, all the Megheads are truly the most wonderful people in the world.  I am moved so much from the love you show Meg and the words you write to her. I love each and every one of you especially queen Meg sitting in her pink rhinestone throne with the blind-deaf-toothless-attack-dog Penny by her side.  She is truly a loving soul and it gives me such joy to witness the people she has attracted to this endeavor.  I have only spoken to Champ on the phone and met 2 others but you are fabulous people from my online affairs with you.  Heartbreak is never easy, shameless plug for Cat’s book here, which I looked through at Megs and could be helpful now, if I only had my own, signed copy and a call from Cat. (But I may win this because i am the only submission) I don’t have that good a break up story because I have never really been in a relationship where I clicked so well with someone as a did with Meg… We have had the best times and some unfortunate one together as well.  I do have a crazy story about a woman that wasn’t my “girlfriend” seeing me driving with another woman,  honking, getting out of her car yelling and banging on my window and then chasing me 16 miles on the freeway.  But that is not what happened this week. I would have never done anything like that to Meg (it's impossible when you spend ever minute with someone). I am deeply saddened by the last couple days and I will never stop loving Meg.  All you Megheads are great and she deserves your support and love.  I have learned so much from you like using Knox gelatin to clean pores, and if any of you put Monistat on your face, let me know if it works. My personal one to share for curly hair is Suave Conditioner as a leave in.

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Tue, 04/28/2009 - 2:56pm
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satil

Aw Meg, at least it was fun while it lasted. I'm not sure if you ladies know this or not but I will be finishing my Master's degree in a week and I will be an OFFICIAL therapist instead of a slave labor therapist. What I recommend to my lovely female patients in the event of a breakup (you'd be shocked how many people come in JUST for this) is to find what else you enjoy in life. You're beautiful, talented, and loved. You have so much joy in life that you can't waste too much psychic energy on this. You learned something, spent some great times, and made some good memories. Now you get to experience a new relationship again! It's natural to grieve your relationship, and I like to have a little ritual. I used to dedicate a box to a particular guy, decorate it with our memories, put his picture, a small gift I didn't give back to use anymore, a letter about things I liked, disliked, and why it didn't work out. That way you can look back when you start feeling too bitter or lonely and see that there really were good times, but it's probably better you didn't stay with him .My girlfriends and I used to have a tearjerker movie marathon and eat ice cream when I was a teenager. What I do now when I'm down is watch terrible daytime TV. At least my life isn't THAT bad...right? I'm a big believer in mutual aid. You feel better when you know you've helped someone. I'll share how you made me feel better about myself Meg. I'm not sure if you remember or not Meg but about a year and a half ago you had a Tova fragrance giveaway. Well, I won. For my entire life I've had cyclical depression and I was in a pretty bad state at that time. Not only was I in the middle of my cycle, but my family was at war with one another, my aunt had married my Mom's boyfriend- two weeks after he and my Mom split. My grandmother was harping on me for not being married yet and my Mom was calling my in tears all the time. I felt useless, empty, and most of all- inadequate. My fiance (boyfriend at the time) was trying his best to help me but there's only so much he can do. You sent me that very expensive looking gift set and made me feel so special and beautiful. I had never won any sort of contest and never had anyone give me something that cost so much and looked so elegant. It got me off the couch and back into life, starting with a big date wearing my Tova perfume and clutch. It started off my climb out of my depressive state. You really do so much for all of us Meg. I wish you the best. One day you will find a man you can click with who can handle the type of woman you are. Until then, limocelo sounds fabulous. :)

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Thu, 04/30/2009 - 4:43am
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lulu

Awwww! So sorry to hear that. Breakups are never fun or easy for both parties. Glad your feeling better! This is an AMAZING group of women supporting each other. And your AMAZING Meg. You make us feel beautiful and amazing everyday with this wonderful website and network. Sending positive thoughts your way! XOX

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Sat, 05/02/2009 - 6:52am
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kellie76

Why are there so many weird people here lately? People can be so mean. You are so nasty and insipid! Ladies don't look at her profile unless you want to see her disease ridden lady parts!!

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Sat, 05/02/2009 - 11:10am
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indi

Oh my lord!  What is wrong with that woman?  Why on earth would she put a picture of her vagina on her profile?  On the diva cups post, she gushes on and on about how they saved her life.  Somehow in the course of a few weeks she now hates them.  She strikes me as a deranged swinger with multiple personalities.

Indi

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Sat, 05/02/2009 - 11:09am
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indi

Meg, I think the more popular your work becomes the more likely you are to attract the occasional nut.  If I were you I would try to look at it as a sign of your growing fame.

Indi

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Sat, 05/02/2009 - 11:21am
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mjsred

I tend to agree with indi: there will ALWAYS be a freakshow lurking in the bushes just waiting to draw attention away from you and onto them.Sad little person badly in need of a nice wax.

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Sun, 05/03/2009 - 12:20am
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himekosorano

To Meg: I'm so sorry about the breakup (even though I know you'll emerge better and wiser than before).  I suppose I should offer you congratulations.  Apparently you have arrived!  Want to know how I know?  You have psycho haters!    To Miss Bologna - I mean Miss Bolognese: we're (mostly) all women here, but no one wants to know you that well.  If you wish to spread your legs and display yourself in that way, perhaps you should do so on a more, shall we say... appropriate website?  "Scurrilous-strumpets.com"?  I made that site up.

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Sun, 05/03/2009 - 8:00pm
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suzi

Oh my God! What a bitter, twisted woman that Diexa Bolognese is. I am so sorry for your breakup with Megken. Don't let the psychos that occasionally feel they have to stick their 2 cents in get you down. You have more important things to do, like take care of yourself. You will come out of this a better, even more fantastic person!

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Sun, 05/17/2009 - 12:22am
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fairyrave

Catherine is amazing.  She is inspirational.  I love the inspirational messages she includes on her website.  I added her as a friend on myspace just so I could read her ramblings.  I didn't know she had books out too, I definitely need to get my hands on these.  She is so inspirational and sweet.  Not to mention the obvious; she is drop dead gorgeous and looks immaculate for her age.  I only hope I look as good as you do when I'm that old Catherine! 

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Sun, 06/07/2009 - 9:05pm
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xemailheather

awwww sorry to hear about that Meg!I wish I could do something to help besides commenting. Actually, I don't have any advice, just consolition lol. I'm pretty young and I have never been in a serious relationship, let alone experience heartbreak.Take care makeup master meg!

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Mon, 06/15/2009 - 2:14pm
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agrimony

I hope sometime that you come to St Louis.  Hope things are better now. Time does heal and I hope that has been the case for you.

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Mon, 10/05/2009 - 11:20pm
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megsplace

Wow irony. I may have read this post before but surfing tonight I've found it and its hit home. I'm also recently going through a rough break up and I'm reading all this support everyone has sent to you and its hard even though it had nothing to do with my situation. I don't really feel like I have anyone to really talk to about it because it became really obvious in the last that no one really liked my ex. You know when you don't like someone and a friend admits the same and you can get caught up in comparing notes sometimes on why that person isn't someone you want to be around. Well, when you break up its 10x worse. I'm not saying that was the case at all with Ken, Meg just that now that we are broken up everyone is coming at me full force with all the negative things they've been waiting to say. Therefore, I don't want to talk to anyone about him because even if I'm hurt hearing all those bad things about your former boyfriend of 3 years seems to project on me also and makes me feel even worse, not better. Long rant but I needed it. I am sorry to hear about your recent sadness Meg. I hope that your heart has had some time to mend and there are more smiles than not in your days

Style may be on the surface, but you can be deep and still have some - Clarissa Gough

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Sat, 10/24/2009 - 12:43pm
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itbealex

youu're just as good as she is(:

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Sun, 01/24/2010 - 3:46pm
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time.of.my.lifetime

I LOVELOVELOVE book suggestions! thank you soooo much! ill be sure to request from my library now..

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Sun, 03/28/2010 - 2:20pm
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keochau

Wow, awesome

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Tue, 07/06/2010 - 4:28pm
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linda9861

Whoa!

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Wed, 07/07/2010 - 8:40pm
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reffahs

hey this is cool

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Sat, 02/12/2011 - 7:49pm
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kanga

one of my favorite quotes is from wallis simpson "the heart has its reasons"

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